haha I might as well keep it.  I'm figuring it will have a upgrade someday soon which will mean if the PS3 or the DSM-520 is on the fritz, at least I will have a backup system.  In addition, it has a hard drive so I'm thinking in addition to a bluray player it might also serve as a DVR.  I am not sure yet, who knows.  When I have time I will explore this PS3 and see what it can do.
But anyway I just wanted to follow-up to say that I did receive a new DSM-520 from Dlink.  They were willing to ship me a new one to replace the one that I got on Ebay and messed up after it stopped responding in the middle of a firmware upgrade.  I figure that any other company would have told me to get lost and I was fully prepared to be told that in light of the fact that the unit was working when I received it and also due to the fact I got it on Ebay and also because everyone else here seems to have bad experiences with Dlink.  However, Dlink totally hooked me up so at least they earned me as a loyal customer.  I just figured I'd report my positive experience to sorta offset the bad comments I read here.