Ok. It is ~working now.
Step 1. Get a Gmail account and do the Setting up email on DCS series cameras FAQ - http://forums.dlink.com/index.php?topic=63536.0
Step 2 -
: Once you have a baseline of things working then try to migrate to your own email provider ( I have not made it there)
Things to know:
There is some relationship between the email interval and the latency between when the motion is detected and when an email arrives about it. While getting it to work, set this interval to 10 seconds or so.
Don't waste too much time trying to get the camera to connect to a Netgear WGT624 V3. Perhaps DLink has a list of routers they have verified this camera works with.
Thank you FN for your assistance!