hello,
I found a solution and it seems to work.
basically, I modelled my solution from this post;
http://forums.dlink.com/index.php?topic=61517.15In the home LAN Router d-link DIR-882 web GUI i turned on "Turn ipv4 filtering ON and ALLOW rules listed" and created the two following rules.
Rule 1
Name: allow LAN traffic
Source
ip: LAN : 192.168.0.1 - 192.168.0.254
Destination ip: WAN: 1.1.1.1 - 254.254.254.254
Protocol & Port: ANY
Schedule: Always Enable
The above rule lets all LAN computers initiate communication to the WAN. The LAN router automatically allows in any reply from the WAN so there was no need to set any rules to allow incoming WAN communication to the LAN (see NOTE at bottom).
Rule 2
Name: give one WAN-IP access
Source ip: WAN: my WAN IP
Destination ip: LAN: the LAN IP
Protocol & Port: ANY
Schedule: Always Enable
The above rule lets my WAN IP address, and only my WAN IP address, initiate communication to the LAN IP through -ANY- LAN port. Alternatively, there is a way to specify just one port instead of -ANY- but doing so would mean writing another rule and altering the above rule.
Lastly, using the Web GUI for the router i forwarded the LAN port i want the WAN IP to access. If you don't forward the LAN port, then the port will remain closed to the WAN even if, in the above rule, you allow the WAN to access the any port (or that specific port).
Thank you.
NOTE
http://forums.dlink.com/index.php?topic=48059.msg199390#msg199390
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if you activate "Turn IPv6 Firewall ON and ALLOW rules listed" all inbound and outbound traffic is completely blocked. In this situation you have to define at least one rule that allows outgoing traffic of any kind (which implicitly allows inbound response traffic due to the firewall's stateful inspection feature).